call it a fling,whatever.

although i've been pretty loaded with stuff i still have to update my blog.i'll feel bad if i leave it dead.anwyays, i've been going around and hearing problems and stuff bout girl-and-guy relationships.

I am not sexist.

this is purely observations i've made.

1. Guys, if u may feel something for someone, please clear your thoughts properly. Sometimes you may just care for someone like a sibling than a friend. It may not be more than that. However, no harm trying. Just give it a thought first.

2. People, as girls, i'm sure we all want to feel secure and truly loved. So guys, be persistent and patient but girls, please give the guys a rest. When you reject them the first time to test them, they're bruised enough cause they finally got the courage to confess their feelings to you and you push it away like that. If you really like the guy but you just want to test him, dont reject him over and over again. Trust me, you'll regret when he leaves. And when he does, it's not because he doesn't love you anymore but it's because he rather love you from a distance than to get hurt by you day by day.

3. If you think things can work out with the person just get together with him/her. It wouldnt kill to just try. THIS IS NOT A MARRIAGE! there is no eternal commitment here.

4. Guys, if you want to express your feelings to a girl and expect something more than that, ASK her. Just open and ask " Do you want to be my girl?" or something like that. You know, it doesnt mean that when you confess your feelings, the girl automatically knows that you want to be in a relationship with her.Sometimes loving someone doesnt necessarily mean you have to be with the person but in your case, if u want it, THEN ASK FOR IT!

5. If you got a girl, treat her well. It's the most embarrasing thing to do if u make a girl cry. What is with your bloody ego and temper? If your gf happens to be better than you at certain things, be happy for her. Why the hell do u get mad and jealous for? 'like wow! that is love' This is like a sick emotional abuse for the girl if the girl makes effort to achieve something and you get mad at her for making the effort in succeeding.

6. Once it's over, just LET IT BE!! Don't seek revenge. It's so not worth the time and effort. Allow yourself a maximum of one week to sob and down yourself with ice-cream. After that, it's a you without the him/her. IT'S HIGH SCHOOL LIFE! you only get to go through this ONCE!!!

7. besides, i don't see what's so bad being single. =D